Testing

The last day of the month has tested the family's physical and mental strength. Tuesday we can rest a little bit after our busy Monday. However, this week, we kept going right through Tuesday. 

Before school, Adeline and Emmie had their dentist appointments. The hygienist did not perform as many steps on the girls as us, but she did show them techniques for improving their brushing. The flouride was not flavored, so when we were out of the office, Adeline stated she is never getting her teeth cleaned here again as it was awful.  She was only 10 minutes late getting to school as I had raced through the back streets to get her there and there was no issues when she informed the teacher where she had come from. 

Emmie went directly after Adeline and was a good patient for the hygienist. She enjoyed picking a treasure from the toy chest. She was disappointed like her sister that she did not get a new toothbrush.

We then took Emmie to the city building as she was scheduled to be seen by the city doctor. All of the children who are planning to enter school are required to be examined by the government doctor. It is with their recommendation along with school's approval they can attend school. Eric and I were nervous because Emmie is one year younger than the upcoming class, so we are unsure what the outcome will be. In addition, they do not want you to teach children at home, so everything I do with Emmie is in English. 

The first exam was an eye exam. She did good until the numbers got larger and she stumbled in German what they were on the last two. For the hearing exam, the lady put the earphones on Emmie, but did not remove her thick hair between her ear and the equipment on one side. Then she quickly told Emmie what to do with a local accent. I felt she did not provide a very focused environment until she had Emmie sit directly in front of her. It was obvious to us Emmie did not do well on this portion as we watched, so we would have to visit our pediatrician for further testing to see if there is a complication. 

Finally, we visited the doctor. The doctor first had Emmie write her name and copy basic drawings. She then had her look at matching and what is missing pictures. The degree to which the images were drawn I think were on a higher level than for a six year old, but we were thrilled when Emmie was able to answer the questions correctly. Finally came the physical exam where Emmie showed her she could hop on one foot and do the other things she asked her to perform. After reviewing everything, the doctor informed us she agrees Emmie is ready for school next year and will send her recommendation to the school. She did warn us we need to understand Emmie may not be the best at everything because she is younger and a little smaller than the average child entering school in the fall.  We are very thankful the doctor has passed Emmie and we can continue moving forward in her learning. The school has the final say if Emmie can attend, so we will now wait for the meeting with them.

In the early afternoon, I immediately called for an appointment to see our pediatrician. He managed to fit Emmie in. Emmie's hearing was just fine, so he was able to fill out the paperwork for us. This appointment also allowed him to check out Emmie's eyelid. He prescribed some medication for the bump to go away and we were on our way home.

Today is Eric's official last day. Last Friday, he went into the office to formally say good-bye to his colleagues since majority of them would not be in today. It was an emotional day as the relationships made will not be forgotten. 

He has been on vacation for the past week, so we have not been on a rigorous schedule. His list of to do items around the place has been accomplished the place and he even found time to relax. We have had lots of family time amongst the girl's schedule which has been great before he starts his new job.

Star Wars Weekend

This weekend we started watching the Star Wars trilogy.

I noticed it in my friend's DVD collection when I visited her earlier in the week. Eric was thrilled when the girls showed him the three DVDs. These movies we cannot rent online and he has been talking about them with the girls. Since it was a cold weekend, it was perfect for starting with Star Wars IV, "A New Hope".

The girls enjoyed Episode IV very much and are looking forward to watching the next one.

Memos + Tylenol

This week I have received a new memo every day from the kindergarten and my visits to the dentist office have just added to the continuous headache from the school.

It began on Monday with the first memo informing us we how we should treat the clothing and accessories that were exposed in the Gartenhaus. I felt this was three weeks late in getting us the information as I normally throughly wash everything, except her backpack when she brought it home weekly due to it being a school environment. For me, it just confirmed my mom instinct to disinfect and sanitize when possible.

My Tuesday morning was spent in the dentist chair. Initially, I thought I was going in for one minor filling until the dentist continued to work on the second tooth. Finally, I stopped him before the third one. He explained to me at this time what he was doing. I was now at ease as I now understood he had done it as a preventative measure to reduce the possibility of future cavities on the second molar and would do the same for the third one. He did tell me it would be the last one and it was.

Tuesday's kindergarten note outlined the schedule change for the Gartenhaus children. The change came as result of them confirming a new location for the children to occupy. For three days of the week, the children who will be attending the elementary school next year are together at Steinberg school, where Adeline attends school. They will utilize the small building next door to the elementary school which is used for after school care. The other two days will remain the same as before and they will remain with their normal groups. All of the children begin and end their day in the kindergarten building. I think this is a great idea as we have informed both schools we would like Emmie to start elementary school next year, so she should be included when they go to the new location.

On Wednesday, we received a status update from the parent board and a reminder about an inspector coming on Friday to take a look at the Gartenhaus. It has also been brought to our attention that our parents board has had to fight to get new toys for the class as the city just wanted us to use the ones out of the old  classroom. I am very proud of our parents board fighting for new toys and books since it is also an airborn issue and are contaminated as well. However, this has caused some anger within the kindergarten since our class is getting funding for new toys and the other classes are not.

Thursday morning, Eric got his teeth cleaned.  Everything was normal until they wrapped a towel around his head, gave him safety goggles to wear, and performed a high water pressure cleaning. He survived it, but felt he needed another shower after it. The hygienist lectured him during the half hour she cleaned his teeth and then handed him the sheet which explained it all in detail. When I refer to detail, I mean the toothpaste she recommends for him and where he can buy it at, etc... His teeth were clean and he came home with some trial mouthwashes as she wants him to use these when he cannot brush like when he is at work, but not a new toothbrush.

Thursday's memo canceling Fasching parties in the kindergarten angered many parents. They are very upset because this is the one traditional party everyone looks forward to with wearing costumes and the festivities. It saddened me because it is very fun for the children and I do not understand why it cannot occur in a place where the children already play.  I plan to find other ways to celebrate with the girls.

Friday morning, I was back at the dentist's office getting my teeth cleaned. Since Eric went first, I knew what to expect and understood what she was talking about. This was only because I was able to prepare from Eric's visit and there were no surprises for me this time. She also sent a paper home with me with her recommendations, but no mouthwash samples or a new toothbrush.

Friday's memo was from the kindergarten teachers. It was a nice memo from them giving us insight on to how the first week went with the new schedule along with helpful tips.

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Construction girl

Saturday morning, Eric and Emmie accompanied Thorsten and his daughters to Halligalli. Emmie was so proud of the tall tower she built all by herself. 

A new greek restaurant opened in downtown Hofheim, so we tried it out for dinner. Even though we were not on the beach, it was still a nice evening out as we reminisced about our trip to Greece last year while indulging in the traditional meal.

Sunday afternoon was our church small group gathering, so Katerina updated us on her knee situation. Unfortunately, she did tear her ACL. She has already started therapy and is making progress.  She is planning to have surgery in  March and was told they cannot do it any sooner as this is the high season for these surgeries due to the ski and indoor soccer season. She is staying positive about the situation.

Little A to Big Q or X

We started with the Audi A3 as this would accommodate our family and is practical for maneuvering around the city. Fast forward 15 plus months, the girls have gotten bigger and we know a bigger vehicle will be better for vacations. 

At Adeline's seven year check-up, the doctor confirmed Adeline is a healthy growing girl. She has hit the 128 cm (51 inches) mark and weighs in at 22 kg (48 lbs). To celebrate her birthday at school, we made cupcakes and frosted half of them with  yellow frosting and the other with purple frosting. The purple was a big hit with the boys and they have already put a request in next year for purple again.

As we were sitting in some bigger vehicles over the weekend, it was apparent the girls need more leg room in the backseat; however, I am still uncertain about driving a bigger vehicle. Thursday was my opportunity to test drive our possible next vehicle. 

In the morning, Eric and I obtained a BMW X3 to test drive on a rainy day. We first parked it in our house garage spot. We then went to the mall parking deck. It took a few extra maneuvers, but we both managed to get the SUV in one parking spot. I then drove him to downtown Frankfurt for work. It was a nice drive, but for me  I worried about taking the sideview mirrors off. I felt like I was a driving a full size van on the narrow streets. It was a safe trip and I returned the X3 after picking up the girls from school so they could experience the bigger backseat.

An hour later, I jumped into an Audi Q5. The test drive vehicle was a hybrid, so it took me a while to get the hang of it. I have gotten over the size of the vehicle, so I was more at ease driving it while I did my errands and did the same parking maneuvers as I did with the X3. In the evening, Eric took it for a quick spin around town. After taking Eric to work Friday morning, I returned the vehicle to the dealership. Even though the A3 felt small after driving around in the SUV's, I was relaxed driving home down the narrow street.

Next week, I will test drive the A4 and we cannot test a BMW 3 series wagon as the dealership does not have any of the new models yet. For now, we have our comparison sheets with prices for conversation. This is good because I am getting confused with the letter and number combinations as we discuss the various vehicles.

Kindergarten is what it is for now. The teachers have created a weekly schedule where three days of the week, the two classes are together in the gym and then the two other days the classes are separate doing their individual breakfast or an outing. Majority of the children are now back in school because the teachers requested this in order for the city to see the situation is not good when all of children attend class. Emmie is enjoying playing with her friends, so we are making the best of it.

Translate please

This weekend consisted of many conversations containing new German vocabulary for us.

It began Saturday morning at the kindergarten parent breakfast regarding the Gartenhaus  situation. The parents group discussed the first few meetings they have had with the city, reviewed the test results including pictures, and then talked about future action plans. I, along with other parents, were shocked when the city director compared the Gartenhaus's environment to those children that live with parents who smoke and acted as it is not really a big health threat. The new classroom facility option the city is considering is a classroom in Marxheim, which is on the other side of the city, so the children would need to be driven everyday while one class would stay in the current place during the reconstruction. This brought much anger since majority of the families walk daily to the school. The breakfast concluded with numerous parents expressing their frustration and the parents group asking us to help support them when it comes to meeting with the city and future issues to come.

We visited the Audi dealership in the early afternoon since the weather was cold and windy outside We remembered our salesman told us the wait time on a new car is about six months from when we picked out our A3, so we knew we had to start looking now. We spent the afternoon crawling through some bigger vehicles in the showroom and then translating the numerous vehicle's packages and options. The girls had fun watching cartoons in the A8's center stack as we were calculating the prices. 

Early Sunday morning, we received the news we had been anxiously awaiting since the holidays. Melanie and Thorsten welcomed their son, Max, into their family. When the text arrived, I thought it was for me to watch the girls as it was time, till I read he had already arrived and weighed 4090 grams and was 56 cm tall. I knew he was a healthy baby, but quickly did the conversion and discovered he was not so little at 9.0 lbs and  22 inches. We are very happy for them and wish them many moments together filled with love and laughter. We are looking forward to meeting him when he comes home in a few days.

Not Sure What to Expect

This week provided us with lots of little unexpected events.

The morning was sunny and clear for our early departure from Les Coches. On our way out of town, we noticed many people putting chains on their tires as the roads were snow covered, but they had been plowed already. Maybe we spent too much time at Tech because we did not feel the roads were bad even though everyone else was driving with chains and going super slow. I even told Eric to pass a few drivers going too slow and constantly braking as I thought they were putting us in danger as we were descending the mountain.

We made it to the bottom of the mountain and passed over a dozen vehicles removing their chains. The roads were dry and we had a good seven hour plus drive ahead of us. We made good timing through France even though the traffic was constant and took the scenic route back to enjoy one last view of the mountain range. Unfortunately, we ran into our first unexpected event: an hour long traffic jam in Switzerland.  But some snacks and extra food helped tide us until Germany. We made it home safely in the early evening to reflect on our wonderful week in Les Coches with the Kopp family as we unpacked.

Monday morning came quick and with it brought much chaos. With the repair work going on in Emmie's kindergarten building, aka Gartenhaus, Emmie's class is combined with the other displaced class which means there are 43 children and 5 teachers crammed into a small gym. Though they asked us to keep our children home if we could to ease the situation, my Monday morning German class meant I had to take Emmie in, find a place to hang her coat on a little make shift rack in the middle of the hallway, and then search for her slippers to be worn in the gym. Emmie was just excited to see her friends, and thought it was neat how the gym had been divided into areas for playing.

When I dropped her off, there appeared to be only about half of the children present, but when I picked her up, it was complete chaos with all of us parents attempting to pick our children up that only attend half day  while dodging the meal carts trying to get to the classrooms for children who stay all day. I had a headache from the noise and commotion just from the ten minutes it took me to get Emmie.  I learned from one teacher that the number of children is less on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so it is not as crazy then.

In the afternoon, the girls were excited to attend dance class since they received ballet outfits for a Christmas gift. Adeline and Emmie were on cloud nine as they thought they are real ballet dancers now.

Tuesday morning, I kept Emmie home with me out of sympathy for the teachers and the situation they have been placed in. This was fine for Emmie since she did some English learning pages and helped me with some of the last unpacking and laundry from our trip.  I received an email from our kindergarten parents group notifying me there is going to be a parent breakfast on Saturday to discuss the kindergarten situation.

Wednesday morning, Emmie had a play date with Marta.  Marta's mom and I are collaborating to try to make the best of the issues at the kindergarten, and this helped me out while I headed to my last German class of the semester. 

The next unexpected situation was how dentists work in Germany. Eric made our appointments as we were due for our six month cleaning. It was very quick and an easy visit since little did we know, but in Germany, you have to make separate appointments for the dentist and for the cleaning.  I think it took me longer to fill out the paperwork, then for us three girls to sit in the dentist's chair and give us each an exam. He talked German with the girls and English with me. He said the girls have excellent healthy teeth, so no cleaning was necessary, which we found strange. As for me, he said I have a very minor cavity and needed a cleaning. So I made new appointments for my filling and with the hygienist but was told I could not make appointments for the girls because their teeth were in good condition.  We thought that might be due to the fact they get regular cleanings...

Upon leaving the office, I called Eric and informed him he made us appointments for the dentist and he needed to make additional appointments for him and the girls to see the hygienist. He called them immediately and the receptionist told him he had to wait to see what the dentist said which was on Friday. Then in order to get the receptionist to make appointments for the girls, he informed her the girls will get their teeth cleaned every six months like the adults as this is how we do it in America.

Toward the end of the week, we received further updates on the kindergarten problems. In a meeting between the city and our parents group, we learned the Gartenhaus - which is a container building - was supposed to be a temporary solution that has turned into 12 years. It was revealed the city did air quality tests in April 2011 and June 2011 which showed declines over time, but due to personnel changes the situation was never corrected over the summer which is how in December 2011, the air quality in the room was poor. When they pulled the floor up for repair work around the toilet areas, they found extreme amounts of bacteria and black mold. An inspector condemned the building and it is now to be torn down. The city has to wait for the next council meeting in a few weeks to be on the agenda to get approval and the funding for a new building.

Meanwhile, our children will attend class in the gym until a solution is found. In addition, some of the parents have been frustrated to learn that whether our not we take our children in, the city is going to keep charging everyone for the kindergarten. An email was quickly sent from the city to all parents regarding the contract we signed that states we will continue to pay for this based on a court ruling in 2010 and we will pay too if the teachers go on strike.  This was some of the quickest communication we have had from them on the subject.

To round out our week of unexpected events, Eric handed in his resignation letter. It was not an easy decision for us to arrive at, but we knew things would change when PRTM was bought by PWC. Eric has made some good relationships and we are grateful and thankful for everything the company has done for us. It is a sad time for us because we enjoyed being part of the small firm. Eric is unsure how these last few weeks will pan out as he concludes this part of his career.